God doesn’t hold a grudge so neither should we. Have you ever held a grudge towards someone? I have and I can’t decide who it hurts more, me or the person that upset me. Holding a grudge is like carry a really large rock around on your back. It’s hard and painful. When I decided to forgive and stop holding a grudge, my load gets a lot lighter.
“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”