Every day we have a choice of what to wear. Some people always wear the same black shirt and blue jeans, and some like to change it up more than others. Regardless of our fashion choices, getting dressed is something we do before we present to other people. I think in this Scripture, Paul is talking about preparing our hearts on how to relate and interact with the people all around us, before we go out for the day. Tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience are easily displayed with agreeable people. However, Scripture tells us to have the same heart posture towards those who may not be so easy to love, making allowance for each other’s faults and forgiving those who offend us. This includes that person who cut you off and gave you the middle finger, for no reason, might I add. We can’t do it alone, but God will grow this fruit in our lives as we start each day postured towards him in obedience.
“Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony.”
Colossians 3:12-14