You and I are one people of God whether we like it (or each other) or not.
The apostle describes in some detail just how that happened. He doesn’t mention how you and I resolved our differences, what self-help steps we took or how we debated to a reasonable and unified conclusion. He doesn’t talk about our gender differences, theological bent or our political views. This is what he said:
Consequently [because of the cross that cancelled our hostilities], you [and I] are no longer foreigners and aliens, but fellow citizens with God’s people and of God’s household. [we both belong to the same city of saints and, in fact, to the same family. God made us spiritual siblings.] God’s house is built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, with Jesus Christ as the chief cornerstone. [The reality of our relationship is based on God’s architecture…his design]
In Jesus the whole building [me and you and all believers] is joined together and rises [grows] to become a holy temple in the Lord. [We, together, are set apart and grow up to be the place God has chosen to live].
And then Paul summarizes the thought as if to make sure you and I take it personally and don’t miss the point: And in Him you too are being built together to become a dwelling in which God lives by his Spirit.” [key words: are being…it’s a process]
Sorry for the above word scramble commentary, but it may be worth another read to capture the importance in your heart and soul.
Maybe I can summarize it all this way: “For he himself is our peace,” therefore you and I are at peace.
Can we shake on it?